I Still Love My Ex Boyfriend - 4 Expert Tips That WIll Help You Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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By TJ Boston

Have you just recently suffered  a terrible break up?  If so you might be thinking  "I still love my ex boyfriend" and that's natural.  It may hurt right now but there are steps you can take to get your ex boyfriend back!  Couples are getting back together all the time and with the right strategy you can be one of them.  Follow these tips and you won't be thinking "I still love my ex boyfriend" because you will already have him back!

Tip #1  Don't Act Desperate

This is one of the  best things you can do to get your ex boyfriend back.  Guys don't go for women if they're acting desperate and obsessed, you will simply look pathetic.  So get rid of that depressed attitude and regain your self confidence!  Win your guy over again by being the hot, attractive woman he fell in love with the first time around!  Don't let him know you are thinking "I still love my ex boyfriend" either.

Tip #2  Don't Try and Force Your Ex To Get Back With You

You'll never win your guy over this way.  You have to make it his idea if you want to get  back with him.  You can start by not calling him for a while.  This will give you both time to allow you emotions to settle and think about the relationship in a rational manner.  Also let him know that you're ready to talk about things in a level-headed manner but after that back off and take a break from each other.

Tip #3  Don't Stalk Your Ex Boyfriend

In other words, don't try and keep tabs on him.  Don't call his family.  Don't Call his friends.  Don't even call him or text him.  If you start trying to know everything he's up too you'll look obsessed and get a bad reputation.  not only that but you will just push him further away.  Just put him out of your mind for a while and let things settle down a bit.

Tip #4  Have a Plan of Action

When the time comes for you to meet with your ex and discuss things you need to have a solid  plan.  If you just run on pure emotion you will make your situation even worse and will have a much harder time getting back together with him.  Do yourself a favor and have an idea of what you're going to do before you blow it.  Play it cool and getting your guy back shouldn't be too hard.  Pretty soon you will be thinking "I love my boyfriend" instead of "I still love my ex boyfriend"!

Comments

mariam 2 years ago

Oh thank god,

finally something to help get over this guy,

i will definitely try these tips!!

Danika 22 months ago

Finally some positive advice rather than just the move on

mandaa 21 months ago

i must try this. i hope it works

Kay 21 months ago

I really need something that works or helps me atleast. I know in teen years, not many of us know what true love is but i do and its been over 6 months and i'm still hurting bad but i still love him. We still talk and joke but he thinks of me as a "sister" rather than anything. And he is kinda like a protective big brother but i love him sooo much and it kills me to not talk to him. I mean we've helped each other through so much.

Jamie 21 months ago

my boyfriend left me for no reason and i was really sad and then i got mad and said a bunch of stuff i shouldnt have said. hopefully this will still work after everything i said.

Poppy 17 months ago

oh my god. I feel exactly this way!! I love him so much. I just wanna see him everyday and have things back to normal. He cheated on me but i still am mad for him!! he flirts with other girls and has a gorgeous girlfriend!! i have been trying theise tips and oooo they are making some progress! keep up the good work:)

Jess 17 months ago

I feel exactly the same as Poppy! i never knew there was other people like this out there, i thought i was the only one! My friends dont understand what it feels like!

Melmao 16 months ago

Okay yeah I broke up with him and now I have a new bf and I realized I'm still completely in love with him...god why is my life like this? So now I have to break up with my new bf... And i know my ex doesn't like me that way anymore. He thinks of me as his sister and he always trying to protect me. Help???

boo 7 months ago

my boyfriend broke up with me in july because he said he didnt want to get so attached to me before he went off to college in sacramento im in l.a. he was so diffrent and i loved that. we had been going out for about 3 months but it felt so much longer we were so happy.its hard to get over him espically because everything reminds me of him espically music. i miss him and this is my last year in high school.i was wondering is there any possibility he might still feel something for me?

candy 7 months ago

ma guy broke up wid me b'coz of a gal he's datin bt i stil love him.we were nt in tlkin terms 4 abt 3weeks naw bt we started tlkin abt 3daes ago bt it sims lyk we re not gona date animore.nd it hurts me alot coz i loved him wid all ma heart nd i stil du coz he was de one who had me first.wat shuld i du?shuld i let go?pls i nid an ansa.

Chloe 6 months ago

I broke up with him niw i just realize that i cant live with out him his on my mind every day . And going to school with him dosnt help i feel like runing up to him an telling him i love him cause i really want him back . I love u for eva nd eva .

confused 5 months ago

great tips wen me and my ex broke up i was crushed and said somethings i shouldnt have i am madly in love with him and just found out im pregnant with his baby i want to sit and talk to him about it but im afraid id break down i dnt want to look pathetic...HELP please!!!

Smart 4 months ago

I luv ex bf so much cus he ws my first luv,now he is back 2 me,i dnt if i shuld break up wid my new guy just b'coz mi ex is back.

Blondie40 3 months ago

As of a few days ago lately I've been feeling that I still love my ex boyfriend of 20 years ago very much. He was my first true love but I broke up with him because he cheated on me. As of thse days I am trying to find him and get on contact with him, I would just love to meet up with him, and tell him that I missed him, talk to him about us either being friends. Or, can we just pick up from where we just left off, and start dating again. i would like to give him a second chance.....please HELP?????

Lisa 2 weeks ago

Its hurts 2 lv sum1 nd nt being lovd in return bt wat is mre painful is 2 lv sum1 nd nva eva find da courage 2 let dat person knw hw u feel

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